The thing I find strange about sexual urges is, no matter how attracted you are to your preferred gender, you really don't need them to get you aroused, neither do you need them for the arousal to end. And, although you can choose to look for your preferred gender to help you with it, if you can't find anybody, masturbation does the job just as well.
If you find women attractive and insist on looking for a sexual partner, there are more than enough women around you to search and ask nicely. And regardless of how nicely you think you're asking, if she says NO to you in any form, you have to respect her decision, respect yourself, swallow your pride, and walk away.
Regardless of the fact that women, being beautiful and attractive, are perfect to relieve male sexual desires, they are not sex objects, and you CANNOT own their bodies. The only body you own is the one your hands are attached to. So learn to keep your hands to yourself, because that's where they belong.
Women are human beings with families, friends, feelings, life goals, aspirations, dreams, values, talent, dignity, power and fears, just like every man. They have the right to do what they want to/with their bodies, just like every person. That you may be physically stronger, doesn't make their rights less applicable to you.
We need women at their best, and in their most stable frame of mind, for our society to continue developing. We don't need rapists and abusers reminding them how physically unsafe, vulnerable and weak they can be. We the men, who are perceived to be stronger need to support and protect, not rape and exploit them.
Stop raping women! Stop raping people!
Your sexual urge isn't worth relieving if it's at the expense of another person's right to consent.
Your sexual urge isn't worth relieving if you must harm someone in the process!
Your sexual urge isn't worth relieving if you must continue to try to persuade the person even after they've said NO!
Your sexual urge isn't worth relieving if you see the need to pay unreasonable amounts just for sex.
Some people even go as far as sampling their erect penises to women in public spaces, to try to persuade these women to sleep with them. Your sexual urge is definitely not worth relieving if you feel the need to go this far!
There is life after sex. Don't let your quest for 10 minutes of fun ruin you and someone else's entire life.